{everyday beautiful life: creature comforts}

I feel like everything is such a blur. It’s Thursday! {Again? Wasn’t it just Thursday?!!} Today we have the amazingly creative Ez of Creature Comforts. She’s got a fab flickr and a very nice package. {For real, could the name of her shop be cooler?} Check them all out after you read her post! {I love the first one on her list. That’s how I feel about munchkin!}

{My Daughter} As a single mom, much of my world revolves around my 10 year old daughter.  Through her eyes I get to see the world in better and brighter ways every day (she also has the best sense of humor and is constantly cracking me up).  As corny as it may sound, she is my morning light, my evening star, and the sunshine that lights my days.  I think she is the most beautiful thing in the entire world.

{Blogging} I honestly don’t know what I would be doing if I had not discovered blogging.  There is not a day that passes without leaving me inspired or moved by something or someone I come into contact with via my blog or blogland.  The connections and community of blogging are irreplaceable, and I am so thankful to be a part of it all.

{Music} Music is essential to me.  I can never remember an artists name or a song title (friend’s tease me about it), but regardless I am inspired daily by the music I listen to.  From classical to pop (and everything in between), I can’t live without it.

{Photography} Taking photos is a lot like breathing, in that it is utterly essential to my existence.  I love the stillness that takes me over when I am leaning in for a shot, or the way an image story is mapped out in my mind as I’m setting a photo up.  The entire process is wonderful and I hope that it is something that I will continue to learn and improve upon over time.

{Noticing Small Things and Mundane Details} This one seems kind of funny, but I guess I want to list it as one of the things that make my life beautiful because it hasn’t always been easy for me to find joy in the small details…and I know that when I take the time to not only look, but really see what is all around me, my life truly is filled with beauty.

All images by Ez Pudewa

{sequins & mirrors}

Behold, the bed of my dreams. It’s shiny and pretty. I’m not sold on the rest of the room, but the mirrored bed is a yes in my book. I’m very attracted to shiny and glamorous things, as evidenced in this post. I love mirrored furniture, but mirrored stairs or walls with mirrored tiles are sickeningly glam.

I’ll take a whole dress covered in sequins. {Doesn’t it make you think of the holidays?} Or, maybe just a few touches, like the one below. A sequined pillow or a wall covered in mirror can glam up the plainest of rooms. I think that would be a great solution for when you can’t paint a wall.

Photos: 1. Elle Decor, 2. & 3. Hunter & Gatty, 4. Adrian Briscoe, 5. Unknown

{about this weekend…}

As you know, I cut out early last week. I booked an event, which just so happened to be a rather major conference called the Summit Series. If you’ve read the NYT, Entrepreneur, Inc, or any other major publication lately, you may have heard of them. Summit has dubbed itself as a “mutual aid society for young entrepreneurs.” The average age of attendees is 28, and they come from every industry. Venture capital, philanthropy, non-profit, media, technology, design … name it you’ve got it. What is really extraordinary about Summit is seeing all these groups work together and grow together. Let me tell you my feet have never hurt so bad {13 hours in 4 1/2 inch heels}, but I got to hear great things and meet amazing people. I thought I’d be talking about the social media folks, VC’s, and the guy who wrote The 4 Hour Work Week, but instead I want to tell you about a few of the great causes and the people behind them that left an impact on me…

  • Eva of Recurso. Ok, so truth is she was booked for the event with me, but she might as well have been an attendee. Eva founded Recurso while we were in high school, and it has grown into an organization that promotes awareness in teens and university students about world hunger, gender inequality, children’s rights, water, sanitation, and the global health disparity. Recurso also funds health and hygiene educational programs for children in a variety developing countries.
  • Ido and Lance of Yes to Carrots. Leaving the W the first night, these two caught up with Eva and I. Now, I love to brag and pitch my friends, because I’m proud of them and because I love to connect people. For most of the conference, I did just that. So, as we’re walking Ido asks about us and I launch into that answer. Lo and behold, wouldn’t you know that these guys have a fabulous paraben-free beauty line and a non-profit {the yes to seed fund which is currently sponsoring organic gardens in some LA schools and a variety of other projects you can read about here.}
  • Jason & Jedediah of Invisible Children. Many of you have heard of IC before.
    One of the best quotes from the weekend came from Jason: “The profit model of the millennial gen is the Triple Bottom Line – Planet, People and Money.” If you could see threads connecting all the attendees, you would see one huge red one that connected almost every participant, and it would represent exactly what Jason said. These guys are fun as can f-ing be, as can be demonstrated in this video.
  • Jamie of To Write Love on Her Arms. If you’ve been on facebook for the past few years, you’ve probably seen TWLOHA. I’ve read the story, but hearing him talk about how TWLOHA came to be made me cry, very quietly, in the back of the room. He and the guys from IC are quite the trio.
  • Sean of Falling Whistles. I will forever use Sean’s story, of seeing a video about waste as a child and how that impacted him from such a young age, as an example for social awareness education in early childhood education. He obviously grew up into a very aware and socially responsible man. Sean’s organization, Falling Whistles is so very compelling. I beg you to hit that link and click through the story; when you figure out where the name of the organization came from, you’ll understand.
  • Scott of CharityWater.  Both the man and the cause are obviously focused with a very intense story, in person. And while one of us thinks he might still be a cocky fucker under it all and the other thinks he’s reformed and looks like McSteamy {no, I won’t tell you who thinks what}, there is no doubt that his organization is doing great things and he has a very good understanding of the challenges to be faced.
  • Lauren of Girls Write Now. One of the hosts of the discussion on empowering women, Lauren Cerand’s organization provides guidance, support, and opportunities to New York City’s at-risk high school girls, to develop creative, independent voices and explore careers in writing. GWN was just honored with an award by Mrs. Obama. Now, if we could get this program running in more schools across the country…
  • Valentina of Kidizimo. She has a great energy {and great shoes.} During the Empowering Women discussion session, she spoke out about how girls need their dads {or a strong role-model like a dad} to set the example. This lead to a later discussion about how many boys say they are who they are because of their mothers. In general, the point is that kids need their parents to show them and tell them that they can do something. It makes it much easier for a kid if he/she has that foundation to build upon.

To sum it all up, it was a pretty awesome opportunity and we left with tons of new ideas and inspiration.

However, I noticed something. The girls that did attend, kicked ass, but I’d love to see more of them. I think it speaks to how far women still need to go. This is not some old boys club filled with old men in suits. This is the new generation of entrepreneurs, but there still was ridiculously less women than men. To emphasize my point, I was the ONLY woman sitting in on the venture capital discussion.

I remember reading a few weeks back that women don’t think big enough when it comes to business: in salary, in profit, in scale. I know that no one likes to hear that, but it’s the truth.

Photo: unknown

{everyday beautiful life: la dolce vita}

Yikes, this week has flown by. I’m running out the door, but had to give you this weeks EBL. We have Paloma of La Dolce Vita. With a blog name like that, you know she’s got something to say about living an Everyday Beautiful Life. Thanks, Paloma!

My husband is not only the love of my life, but he is also my best friend. He knows more about me than anyone else in the world. He knows how to get under my skin, but he also knows how to make me laugh and feel like the most special woman in the world.

Travel feeds my soul. I have a major case of wanderlust and am constantly dreaming of our next trip. I find so much inspiration when I travel, whether it is to a brand new place or one that I am already familiar with. There is something so special and exhilarating about being removed from your usual surroundings. I love nothing more than walking through the streets of a beautiful city and taking in the sights and sounds.

I absolutely adore beautiful flowers, but then again, what woman doesn’t? My absolute favorite are pink peonies, whether in a bright magenta like the ones pictured above, or a soft blush tone.


I cannot imagine my life without blogging. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined that my blog, La Dolce Vita would allow me to meet so many amazing people. I have grown so much as a result of my blog and have explored new interests because of it. It is ingrained in me and is most definitely a part of my everyday life.

Good food and wine are always better in the company of good friends!

Inspiring Interiors are a huge part of my life and my blog. I love looking at a room in a new light or being inspired by a lamp or a rug. I absolutely love interior design, so when I see a new space that inspires me, it makes for a bright spot in my day.

My puppy, Tate has become a huge part of our lives. My husband and I always joke that he is like our first-born child. We adore him with all of our hearts and have spoiled him rotten. He always manages to put a smile on my face, even if I am in a rotten mood.

Image Credits: Rodney Smith for New York Magazine, Unknown, Domino, ELLE DECOR, Richard Foulser, Miles Redd for Domino

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{playing along}

I saw this little game and decided to play along. How about you try it, too!

Reading… Some old favorites. Also, The Lost Symbol, Her Fearful Symmetry, and Twenties Girl. Actually, I’m done with those, but it happened in October, so… ya.

Keeping… Tons of notes. I should get a little notepad. A pretty one.

Baking… Pumpkin Spice Muffins and other quick breads.

Watching… The same old suspects plus one: Mad Men, Glee {newbie}, Lie to Me, Gossip Girl, Grey’s & Private Practice.

Trying… To keep my sanity. {Maybe this one should be labeled “Failing.”)

Making… The best of things.

Congratulating… Myself. I’ll share soon. My Aby {Abuela} for turning 100. My munchkin for just about anything good he does.

Photo by Julia Davis

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{the birth of characters}

Project create is going well. I love that I can plop down with my laptop anywhere I please and begin to write. As some of you may know, I’ve joined NaNoWriMo to write 50,000 words by November 30th. I’m a tad behind because I did not outline before November 1st. However, I am pretty deep into developing characters, and am finding myself writing deep into the night.

I tweeted something the other day that struck a chord with some participants. I said that, “Creating characters is like being pregnant & writing a book is like giving birth.” The writing is the often painful, arduous labor, but you endure it because you develop such a relationship with your characters. You create and give birth to your characters in the actual writing. They grow, develop quirks, history, and all the other things a person has. The only difference is that you are the only one to see the character in the writing process. You alone have this relationship. I find it fascinating, particularly because I’ve never written a lick of fiction.

Really, the major difference between pregnancy and birth as compared to character development and writing is that a writer can drink large quantities of coffee. Not just can, but must…
Photos: maggienkole {via} Lolita, 2. Jill Will & 3. Chocokat

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