{random acts of kindness: pencils of promise}

If you read one post this week on my blog, please make it this one.

We focus on the beautiful here everyday. As you know, it is impossible to live a beautiful life without giving and kindness. It’s vital to take the time to consider the value of others. It helps us be aware of our own value and our role in this life. I firmly believe that we are all made of something precious and shared. I believe that everything in this universe is connected. So, today I’m asking you to take a moment and do something kind for someone else. Do something beautiful for your universe…

Paloma at La Dolce Vita approached me with this wonderful project. She rounded up several bloggers to give back this holiday and make a difference for a very special charity. Pencils of Promise is a kick-ass 501c3 {aka non-profit} that partners with local communities and organizations to build schools of early-stage education in developing nations for some of the world’s most impoverished and undereducated children.  There are more than 75 million children in this situation worldwide. I find that totally unacceptable, as I’m sure do you.

Last December, the Pencils of Promise team visited a small village in Laos. By July 2009, they had built a new school for the village children who started attending classes on September 1st.

The next step?

Pencils of Promise is focusing on helping the girls of Champet, a village in Laos that is home to the only high school in the area. In order to attend this high school, the students in the village and surrounding villages must leave their families and homes to live in dormitories. These dormitories are basically makeshift bamboo huts. They are not safe, but the girls are taking this huge risk to get an education. They are taking the risk to better their lives, their community, their world. How courageous is that?

In the spirit of the holiday season, we are asking for your help today on behalf of these children. Just think of the enormous impact we could have if each person who reads this post donates just $1.00. If you are willing and able to give more ($35.00 buys shelves for a classroom, $50 provides pencils for one year, $100 provides a teacher’s salary for three months and so on), it would be greatly appreciated. We are in the midst of the giving season and hope that you will find it in your heart to make a donation to this worthy cause today. If these girls can put their lives at risk to better themselves and their universe, can’t you spare a minute and one dollar? I think we all can.

The goal for Blogger Action Day: Build safe, legitimate housing for the female children to have access to further their education. Currently, some parents are unwilling to send their kids to school because of the danger of these huts that you will see others living in. This dormitory size will fit about 200 young Laotian girls.

The cost: $1 and 1 minute

The result: More than I could possibly express on the pages of this blog.

{btw} If you would like to stay informed about the difference Pencils of Promise is making, be sure to become a fan on their Facebook page.

photography by nick onken

{fantasy & reality}

The top dress is by Alexis Mabille, lover of all things bows. It’s couture. For most of us, I’d say this is fantasy. The bottom dress is under $200 from Anthropologie. Granted, it isn’t as luxe, but it is massively precious.

Photos: 1. walter pfeiffer for vogue china via {this is glamorous}, 2. anthropologie

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{inspired gifts: edgy + badass}

edg·y –adjective
daringly innovative; on the cutting edge.
bad·ass–adjective
1. (of a person) difficult to deal with; mean-tempered; touchy.
2. distinctively tough or powerful; so exceptional as to be intimidating.

{Bukowski’s Love is a Dog From Hell $12}
or for off-kilter but fun, {FU Penguin $10}

{snow white’s revenge vinyl applique $15}

{Lars von Trier’s Antichrist… ironic gift, no?}
*Warning:  Extremely graphic.

{Chains of Love Cuff $80}

{Giles & Brother Skull Stud Earrings $90}

{Norwegian Wood Leather Cage Skirt $139}

{everyday beautiful life: old sweet song}

Today’s guest is Amy of Old Sweet Song. Now, I’m going to be completely honest. I only asked her to be part of this so maybe she’d ask me to be part of her Blogger Crush series. Ok, not really, but it would be cool. The truth is that I have a blogger crush on Old Sweet Song, and I’m extremely envious of her {any other bloggers} living in NY. Granted, I’m not sure I could handle living in NY, but I like to pretend that I could. Besides living in NY and having a pretty cool blog with one of my favorite series’, Amy shares some of my tastes. I call for another blogger meet up next time I’m in NYC. Amy, you are officially invited!

{Being in love} My boyfriend Anthony is the love of my life. He makes my heart smile.

{Chocolate} The darker the better. My favorite is Green & Blacks dark chocolate with dried cherries. Seriously, I cannot get enough of it. In fact, I am eating some right now. Not even lying.

{New York City} It’s an amazing thing to live in the greatest city in the world. After 5 years I still have moments where I think “wow, I live here!”

{Etsy} I can waste hours peeping all the lovely things. People who make things totally inspire me. One day I will join them. Some recent pretty finds here and here.

{Food Blogs} Another tine suck of mine, food blogs. I never tire of looking at them and reading recipes. Bonus points for food blogs that feature gorgeous photography like SproutedKitchen.com which is one of my faves.

{Good Books} I like to fall asleep reading. Right now I’m reading Half Broke Horses by Jeannette Walls. I’ve just started it but have high hopes, considering she wrote probably the greatest book ever.

Photos: 1. weheartit, 2 & 3. Flickr, 4. Etsy, 5. SproutedKitchen, & 6. Scribner

{inspired gifts: playful + wholesome}

Sure you can get them games for PS3, Xbox, Wii, or whatever game system they have, but you will earn major points with the parents for buying something different and wholesome. Not to mention, you’ll spare the kid a childhood devoid of whimsy and imagination.

play·ful –adjective
1. full of play or fun; sportive; frolicsome.

whole·some–adjective
1. conducive to moral or general well-being; salutary; beneficial

{Crayon rocks $6.95}

{Paper machine by Walter Ruffler $9.95}

{The Little Prince Pop-Up Book $18.60}

{Chronicle Books There Was an Old Lady $11.55}


{Print from The Voyagers $20}

{Abima Uglydoll $24}

{Pirate ship yacht $39.95}

{Create Your Own Playhouse $80}

{p.s.} Brooklyn 5 & 10 is offering 20% off for the entire month of December.

{p.p.s.} Hit the “Shop” tab at the top of the page to get to the {Bits of Beauty} shop. Tons of gift ideas there and we get a few bucks every time you buy. Yay!

{giveaway: chains of love}

I’ve raved about Christian Cota’s collection and use of chains. You may have read my post on the Chains of Love and the fabulously affordable chains available there. Chains of Love has a new shop and new items added to the fabulous collection. In celebration of the new shop and the upcoming holidays, Chains of Love is giving away a Gretchen body chain {worth $60} to one lucky reader!

Here’s how to enter:

1. Visit the Chains of Love website.

2. In the comment section of this post, answer the question:

“How would you rock the Gretchen chain?”

{hint: it’s adjustable and reversible}

Contest ends on December 11, 2009 at midnight EST.

Melissa will pick out her favorite answer as the winner. Good luck!

{winner: toujours toi}

Before I announce the lucky winner, I wanted to share a few great images I pulled from Nina’s blog. These two are from Nylon magazine. You can see two of my favorite necklaces that were up for grabs in the giveaway. However, the winner chose a piece featured on the cover of an international version of Elle. Ready for the winner?

The winner is…

Ms. Unreliable aka Kit!
Congrats, you are the proud owner of the Elisabeth Necklace from Toujours Toi!

Thanks to everyone who participated. We loved reading the answers! Don’t forget that the Dace giveaway is going on right now and ends tonight. And, another giveaway begins today!

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{making it snow}

I love snowflake cut-outs. Living in SoFl, that is probably as close as I will get to snow at Christmas without leaving the state. You can find a great tutorial over at Paper n Stitch. Enjoy!!!

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